Keeping the Fire Lit, Winter Carnival and Joy in the Middle School

We’ve almost made it to February break. It has been an admittedly tough slog at times, but kids are hanging in there. They are doing surprisingly well in fact. Admittedly, they’re tired…  Of course they are! Students are tired. Teachers are tired. Families are tired too! So, it should be no surprise that when we(the middle school team) sat down to look at this week… tired was the primary condition that we had to battle. You see, every year at this time we tend to plan something really fun to celebrate the hard work that our community does throughout the year. Most years we have a community celebration before every break! Unfortunately though, many fun, unique and interesting events have been eliminated this year for health reasons, safety reasons, or for reasons of sheer fatigue. With everything that students have lost this, we feel strongly that school celebrations SHOULD NOT be another important part of school that falls to the wayside. If nothing else, we want to maintain the joy we share at school. So our 7th and 8th grade team doubled down on our outdoor time this week… The result? Friday, February 12th is the “Winter Carnival.” A day of celebration of learning and the beautiful winter weather we have been so fortunate to get this year. Students will compete in a “bean bag biathlon (ski/snowshoe/run and corn hole), snow sculpture building, and enjoying outdoors. Of everything that we’ve lost, we couldn’t bear to lose celebration and joy. Just enjoying each other’s company, snowshoeing, nordic skiing, and playing in the snow… okay… maybe a little campfire too.

I probably don’t need to tell you that this is a weird school year. You’re very aware. If you’re reading this, then you either have a kid here at Flood Brook or you’re in someway connected to the education community. I really don’t need to tell anyone that the school year looks different, and the chances are pretty good (if you’re reading this) that I also don’t need to tell you to waste any time worrying about “kids falling behind.” They’re just learning different things. See Kimberley Moran’s great article from  WeAreTeachers from last May (Moran).

So what AM I going to tell you? Well, I won’t say “the kids are okay.” There is plenty of research by better equipped people than me regarding the unique challenges that COVID schooling presents for young adolescents (Singh et. al). It’s not as dire as some are making but it is the reality that we work with when we meet kids where they’re at. What I will tell you is this– of everything that has to go away, of everything we have the opportunity to re-envision, re-work, or try again, we need to cling most strongly to any school event that can safely promote joy in learning. Which brings me to my real goal for this year: To keep the fire lit. 

Fortunately, kids are not falling as far behind as we worried, see NYTimes Dec. 2 piece by Erica Green (Green). Even if the COVID gap was as big a threat as people worry it is(trust me, it’s not EVERYONE ON THE PLANET IS GOING THROUGH THIS) there is something you can do. Even with the constraints that are in place due to covid restrictions, there is one thing you can do for children’s education that doesn’t cost you anything. It does not require you to be an expert in the field where your child is struggling. It just takes us all being present. If we can do nothing more this year, we can endeavor to keep the fire lit! We can do everything that we can to make sure that when this is all over, your child still has the burning desire to learn. Something. Anything. Whatever makes your kid really want to learn… The most important educational goal for your child at the end of the pandemic is that they still love learning. Do what you can to keep that fire lit! Reach out to your child’s advisor if you need suggestions.

Thanks for reading!

-Cliff 7/8 Social Studies

Works Cited

Green, Erica L. “New Data Show Some Children Aren’t Falling as Far behind as Predicted.” The New York Times, The New York Times, 2 Dec. 2020,

Moran, Kimberley “Kids Arent Falling Behind.” We Are Teachers, 4 June 2020,, Shweta, et al. “Impact of COVID-19 and Lockdown on Mental Health of Children and Adolescents: A Narrative Review with Recommendations.” Psychiatry Research, Published by Elsevier B.V., Nov. 2020, children may develop feelings,et al., 2020).